Getting an “XOXO” text is sweet, simple, and full of warmth.
It usually means affection, care, or closeness—whether it’s from a friend, partner, or crush.
The best reply depends on who sent it and the vibe you share. You don’t need to overthink it. A genuine, matching response is almost always enough.
Below are 40 easy, thoughtful ways to reply to an “XOXO” text, grouped by situation so you can choose what feels right.
Simple & Safe Replies (Everyday Use)
These work for friends, family, or casual conversations.
XOXO 💕
Back at you
Hugs!
❤️
Sending love
Always ❤️
Right back to you
Big hugs
Much love
Same here 😊
Sweet & Thankful Replies
Use these when the message feels caring or supportive.
You’re the best
Thank you, that means a lot
Thanks for always being there
Feeling the love
So grateful for you
Appreciate you
This made my day
Always thankful for you
Much appreciated ❤️
Lucky to have you
Flirty Replies (Crush or Romantic Interest)
These keep the energy going without trying too hard.
You just made me smile 😉
That was cute
Back at you 😘
You’re sweet
Made my day
Can’t stop smiling now
Right back, handsome/beautiful
Happy to have you in my life
Feeling extra loved
Guess who’s blushing now 😊
Playful & Lighthearted Replies
Perfect if your dynamic is fun and relaxed.
Well, that was adorable
You beat me to it
Couldn’t have said it better
Right on time
Sending double back
That energy is mutual
Always a vibe
Love that
Same same
You know me too well